I agree, I was stuck with using the Mindset in my seminars, and it's a problem to use. The electrodes embedded in the ear cushion are unreliable, too.
I don't see the max patch on the Neurosky web site, although it was always hard to find. IIRC, baud rate for the Mindwave is 115200. I've never used the [serial] object, so I don't know how well it will work, but I hope someone gives it a try. The Mindwave uses a USB RF dongle, so there is probably some sort of drive required as well.
Michael