Thank you @YGREQ. Looks like i was a little enthusiastic when writing the post. Your suggestion about changing the title is good. Once I get the external to run again, i will change it accordingly.
It is a bit of a hens-egg problem. I'm aware of the fact that this is is not easy to setup, and not targeting the "typical max user" (if that is actually existing). So it was for me more an experiment, to find out if it makes sense to release stuff like that at all, and i didn't care much about proper description. With the result that it was too nerdy apparently, and not just me got discouraged.
@VICHUG, it is actually not a windows/non-windows issue, it is that the algorithms for Machine Learning can run on many kernels in parallel, so you can get real-time results if you make use of a decent graphics card. "thank you, Gamers" seems to be a running joke in the ML community because graphic cards developed for games are great and affordable. The projects are typically developed with Linux, not windows.
Also I want to mention that i think there is so much potential with externals (densepose is only one example) that i don't understand the strategy of cycling74 here. The API for externals has layers of different ages, where you understand the latest only if you dig through down to the older ones, which is way too time consuming. And I would wish for a platform supporting the developers like unity asset store, if you want to release something as a max developer you're really left on your own, no infrastructure, no platform... this way expanding the capabilities of max is so much slower that it could be if there would be more support for the community. Max is loosing ground to vvvv - just my subjective impression is that in germany it already lost, young people don't chose max anymore.