haha yeah I can't speak for the rest of the team, but the tone of the OP pretty much turned me off from formulating any reply... REQUIRED... lol.
but I hear what's being requested here. of course there will always be some fundamental differences in opinion regarding what our software should focus on providing to our customers. 3rd party externals have always been a feature rather than a bug IMO, and that's not going to change anytime soon. additionally, tools like syphon, spout, and OSC fill in holes not filled by 3rd party externs. Max is simply one tool in the toolbox of the professional real time media designer.
I'd encourage anyone who's interested to check out our
min-devkit project, which modernizes our sdk and greatly lowers the barrier to entry into external development. it is still a work in progress, and will probably remain so for some time, but we are excited about the potential in this area. there are some plans in place to look at the realsense sdk in the context of min.